In a healthy relationship, partners experience a balance of power. The power is equally divided between both people, and each person is free to express their needs and individuality. Positive power exists when people decide to be together, not because they need each other, but because they respect, appreciate, and love one another. 

Unfortunately, many of us have experienced relationships where the balance of power was out of alignment. This often occurs when we either have our power taken from us or give it away. 

Those who wish to take our power will do it either openly or covertly. They may use emotional, psychological, or physical abuse. This can include: 

1. Domination, intimidation, and threats

2. Insults and rejection

3. Emotional blackmail

4. Persuasion, manipulation, and mind games

5. Unrealistic expectations

6. Control of our money

7. Hitting, slapping, punching, or other forms of physical abuse

When we've experienced control, we often learn to block or resist relationships because we fear losing our power again. 

We can also lose our power by giving it away—and we often do this without realizing it. If we feel emotionally dependent on our partner, we may give up our needs in exchange for stability and support. We may say "yes" to sexual requests or demands when we don't really want to engage in them. We could even be passive or go along with whatever our partner wants, so we don't rock the boat.

There's usually fear behind us giving up our power in relationships. Fear of starting over or financially supporting ourselves or our children. Fear of standing on our own two feet or that no one else will want us. 

Any unbalance of power in our relationships can leave a mark on us and shape our trust in other people. It can wear us down and damage our self-esteem. It reverberates throughout our lives and can lead us to block future healthy relationships. The control we've experienced doesn't have to come from romantic relationships; it may have been at the hands of parents or friends in the past.

We need to reclaim our power to step out of unhealthy relationships or move forward into new ones. This energy clearing webinar will clear out the relationships where we've had our power taken or given away. We will also get to the roots of our underlying beliefs to let go of the pain from the past and update you with a new understanding of relationships from Divine Source Energy. Afterward, you will be able to step forward in your power in existing or new relationships.