Have you experienced abuse but still feel a strong pull towards your abuser?

Do you struggle to set strong energetic and emotional boundaries with the person or people who hurt you?

Sometimes, even when we truly desire to have emotional and energetic boundaries with the people who have abused us, we just can’t pull away. We fight ourselves, reprimand ourselves, or promise to do better next time, but we still find ourselves

• Unable to tell the difference between our emotions or energies and those of our abuser

• Feeling our abuser’s pain

• Seeing things from our abuser’s perspective

• Feeling an emotional or energetic connection with our abuser

If this sounds familiar, you are not alone. You may have a trauma bond with your abuser

If our inner child is still bonded with our abuser, setting boundaries isn’t possible. The bond must first be undone. 

A trauma bond is a psychological response to abuse. It occurs when an abused person forms an unhealthy bond with their abuser. Trauma bonds are often a result of feelings of attachment or dependence.

We need attachments with other people to survive. Babies are attached to their parents. Adults form attachments to those who provide comfort and support.
When we are reliant on the person who is abusing us for emotional, physical, or other needs, a trauma bond can develop. We may develop sympathy for our abuser. We may see things from their perspective. We may become emotionally and energetically fused with them. We may even turn to them for support from the pain they caused us. 

It can be hard to pull away. 

Trauma bonds can keep us locked in a cycle of abuse and prevent us from developing healthy boundaries. 

It’s time to break those bonds and let go. 

This month’s Inner Child group energy clearing is centered around freeing you from your trauma bonds. We will: 

• Work with Divine Source Energy to resolve all past traumas that contributed to your trauma bonds.

• Release painful and toxic patterns and free you from your fear

• Heal your energy and help you build stronger boundaries

• Boost your self-worth and mental and emotional strength

• Conduct an an energy clearing to help you release and resolve the past so you can finally move forward