When we experience trauma, we can become bonded to our abuser. These unhealthy attachments, also called trauma bonds, often occur in children and adults in an unescapable abusive situation. We survive horrific conditions by denying or disconnecting from what is going on. We may even tell ourselves we did something to deserve our abuse. Trauma bonds block our ability to see or cause us to deny the whole truth. 

Trauma bonds also cause us to become hyper-focused on our abuser's wants and needs. We learn to accept and agree with their worldview and become emotionally, energetically, and psychologically entangled with them. We often over-identify and sympathize with them and may even feel their pain. We might have a love-hate relationship with our abuser where we desire to get away from them, but we are drawn to them. Trauma bonds often leave us feeling trapped.

To heal, we need to free ourselves of the unhealthy bonds that hold us. This energy clearing will help you clear the energetics behind your bond with your abuser so you can gain freedom from the invisible chains still holding you to them. 

Learning to let go of trauma bonds is a big part of my Life Beyond Abuse: Heal and Overcome Trauma by Alchemize™ course. Join me May 13-15 to finally let go of and gain peace from the abuse you suffered.